Feb. 25, 2025

Street Talk Debut: A Conversation with Alexandra

Street Talk Debut: A Conversation with Alexandra
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Street Talk Debut: A Conversation with Alexandra

Join Paul Zammit in the inaugural street talk segment of the podcast, featuring an engaging conversation with Alexandra, a first-time podcast guest. In this episode, Alexandra shares her personal insights and experiences on a wide range of topics including the current socio-economic climate in Victoria, the impact of COVID-19, and the pressing issues facing the younger generation today.

Explore a candid discussion on the challenges of raising children in a world increasingly influenced by social media and commercialism, and hear Alexandra's thoughts on crime, education, and the critical state of the healthcare system. Plus, enjoy light-hearted moments as Alexandra delves into her previous work in the funeral industry, revealing the peculiar yet profound experiences that shaped her outlook on life.

Tune in to understand the complexities of life in Victoria through the eyes of someone navigating its ups and downs first hand, as Paul facilitates this enlightening and genuine discussion.

Chapters

00:06 - Introduction to Street Talk

01:13 - Current Situation in Victoria

02:49 - Youth Crime Concerns

06:34 - The Funeral Industry Insights

12:15 - Reflections on Life and Death

13:22 - Valentine’s Day Special

17:53 - Closing Thoughts and Farewell

Transcript
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Hello, and welcome to our podcast, Why Is It So? I'm Paul Zanik.

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I have tried on a few occasions to arrange a street talk segment,

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but when I approach people in the street to talk to us on our podcast,

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they either thought I was scamming, or they felt they couldn't possibly do it.

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Well, today I'm presenting my first street talk episode with a typical Australian

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lady who is a little nervous because this is also her first time on a podcast

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and has kindly accepted my invitation to be my guest to discuss what she sees as life in general.

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Her name is Alexandra and I would like to introduce you to her now.

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Good morning Alex, nice meeting you and thank you for giving me the pleasure

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of having you on our podcast.

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Tell us a little bit about yourself. Hello Paul, thanks for having me.

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Well first and foremost I'm a mum of an 18 year old. I'm currently working in NDIS cleaning.

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I have been in several industries throughout my life, sales, car trade, funerals.

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That's about it. Yeah. The funeral ones is interesting, isn't it?

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Very interesting. How long were you doing that for?

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Two years. Oh, great. Okay.

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So, yeah, all right. So, basically, what I want to talk about today,

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what do you think of the current situation of Victoria?

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And by that I'm saying like the amount of debt that we have,

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the way the cost of living has gone up, like the same all around the world,

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but this seems, Victoria, seems to be the worst one at all. How does it affect you?

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How does it affect me? Well, it hasn't really affected me personally.

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I know it's affected a lot of

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people I do know, businesses, those who do have high debts and so forth.

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But we are in a state as you know as much as I'm such a positive person I'd

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like to think that it's going to get better it's going to be good our education

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system's going to get better but it's not it's it's yet to be sorted and I think

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there's there's a lot that's happened over.

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COVID and kind of a reflux after COVID those who were doing well,

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will continue, those who didn't just had to start and rebuild.

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It's a really sad situation, but I just find that, you know,

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from a financial level to schooling systems, to medical systems,

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our medical system, wow, that's just another subject on its own.

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But yeah, look, there's a lot of work to be done and I don't know if it's going to get better.

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I actually feel sorry for our next generation, our kids, you know,

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after us, how they're going to cope, what they're going to do.

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How life is going to be for them.

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Yes, that is the thing that most people are worried about.

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And even, you know, the crime in Victoria is also another problem. It's sad.

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Yeah, we've got these young kids. They're getting younger and younger.

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They're getting their own and whatever have you.

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And, you know, they can't do anything with them. No. It's not that they can't.

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They should be able to, but they just won't. Yeah.

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I've actually heard kids say, oh, you know, I'll do it now before I turn 18

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because when I turn 18, there's consequences after that.

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Before that, it's just a slap on the wrist or, you know, you can get away with it.

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So you've got theft going on. You've got, you know, home invasions.

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And the sad part about it is these kids are arranged between 13 and 17.

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Like they are so young where they should be in schools getting an education

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or doing something that's productive apart from, you know, But maybe they're finding it hard.

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Maybe their parents are finding it hard and they can't give them what they need or what they want.

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Everything's so commercialized these days. They need their brand runners or

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sneakers. They need their phones and just everything labeled.

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So what are you going to do to get it?

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Yeah, that is a point.

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It's very sad, really, the way we've gone.

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Yeah, children are just influenced. Yeah, and I think that social media has

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got a lot to do with it as well.

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They feel that they've got to be macho by, look at me, this is what I'm doing.

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And a lot of these kids are hijacking cars and actually filming it and putting

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it on social media. Of course, yeah.

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So it's just not a good place to do it. They're committing a crime and it's being videotaped.

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Yeah, and the judges sort of say, yep, molly boy, have bail, go out again.

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Yeah. These seven that they just got a couple of days ago, they were all on

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bail and they've just been caught again.

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They're still going to go out again. Absolutely.

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It's unbelievable. Well, just a quick story. When I was in hospitality,

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I was managing a restaurant over in the West and we had about eight,

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six or eight young fellas come in.

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Masks on, machetes. They just ran through the restaurant in afternoon,

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like so broad daylight, and just terrorized the guests in there,

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the patrons and so forth.

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And they did this to a few locations. And as soon as they left this restaurant,

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they went to another venue because they knew the police were going to be on

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their way to this venue. So they went and just did this.

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Now, all these kids were aged under 16.

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So my question was, okay, that's fine. Now, you've just damaged,

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you know, parents and children, families that have been in this restaurant,

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what they've experienced, but then you've gone off and done this. Where are your parents?

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I mean, where are, where's, what's the justice going to be in this?

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Yes. You know, so it's. I believe there's this, isn't it?

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The western suburbs. The western suburbs, yeah. Yeah, this is a while ago.

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It was probably about five years ago.

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So, you know, it's really sad. It's sad to see that.

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It damaged us for, you know, for a little bit. and you kind of think,

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okay, so how old were these kids again when they got caught? Yeah. Sixteen.

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And you just wonder. Well, they probably didn't serve any time anyway. No.

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They just go through the door and walk out the next door. It's kind of a funny thing for them.

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So, you know, and what they get out of it, I don't know, a few dollars maybe, a few iPads.

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I don't think it's what they get out of it. It's just the thrill,

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I think, of getting the cops to chase them And knowing that the cops weren't

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doing anything like they did this time, they actually drove into them to stop them. Yeah.

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Well, they should be giving them some Lunar Park passes to go play and have

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a thrill out there or something, like if they can't, you know.

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Well, that's the other thing, though, because what a lot of these kids are doing,

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like 10-year-olds and upwards,

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They're playing these games where it's shoot them up and kill off all these

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ninjas or whatever they are.

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But the ninjas die at the end of the thing. Oh, but they've won that,

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reset it, and they come back again.

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They don't realise that in real life they don't come back. If you kill somebody, they're dead.

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Exactly. That's the problem. I just don't think they understand that side,

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whether it comes from an upbringing, whether it comes from another country they've come from.

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We don't know. We don't know what makes people tick. Yeah, that's true.

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It's just the thrill of doing something like this and saying,

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look at me, I know what you do.

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When you were, it still fascinates me now about the funeral partners. Sure.

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That fascinates a lot of people, to be honest with you. Sorry?

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I said that fascinates a lot of people.

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Often I get asked, did you hear noises? I said, of course you do.

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But it's probably something that's in our head because once you're...

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You heard the voices while you were working there. Yeah.

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Yeah, no, sometimes you'd be the last to leave or the first to get in and there's

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the mortuary out the back and you come in and you're like, no, I didn't hear that.

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No, no, I did hear that. No, I didn't.

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Okay, so one thing's for sure, like nobody ever answers back to you when you're

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in there, that's it. So it's a very interesting...

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Industry because you kind of, for me, it just made me really appreciate life.

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When I woke up in the morning, getting ready to go to work, I'd just stand at

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my balcony and look out the window and kind of think today, somebody's going

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through a worse day than me.

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You know, I've got this, you know, I'm going to be holding.

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So it was kind of in a weird kind of way, very rewarding because you were helping

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someone through the hardest day of their life possibly, You know,

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so, yeah, it just, it really touches you.

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Some of them can really stay in your mind quite a, you know, quite some time.

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Did you do the makeup on them as well or did they have a special makeup person?

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No, we did makeup for ladies. We did the nail polish.

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We, no, we had, we were all taught to do that. Yeah.

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Well, not everybody. I mean, whoever could handle being in the mortuary.

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Actually, I was in a mortuary one time. I had to go to see this guy selling

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computers or copies or something. I went to see the guy.

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And I said, oh, you should have been through the place. I said, no, no, I haven't.

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So he said, well, you can't take it for a walk around. So he did.

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And we got to this big wall of drawers.

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Sure. Anyway, so he said, this is what we do with them here. And I said, oh, good.

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Anyway, he said, are you worried about them?

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I said, well, I am a little bit concerned. He said, well, don't worry about

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the dead ones. It's an alive bastard. Absolutely.

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People will say, weren't you afraid? I said, I'm afraid of the living, not the dead.

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You know, but it's something that a lot of people, they go, oh, you worked in funerals.

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I'm like, oh, you know, we're all going to go there one day.

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It's okay. It's something you are not going to beat. The only problem is we don't know we're there.

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Well, that depends. I actually believe in there's an afterlife.

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So I believe we do know we're there, but our bodies are just a,

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they're a unit that we get transported in. Our spirit goes elsewhere.

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So whether we come out, look down on ourselves. So what do you think in that

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sense, what do you think happens to us after we go?

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Do you think our spirit just automatically just goes or waits for a few years

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and turns back to earth? I think if you're ready to go. A male or a female, a different... Yeah.

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A dog or... This is my take on it, and this is only my take.

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These are my thoughts, but...

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Being there and just being in the moment on a daily basis in there where you

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just block everything out and you've got to concentrate, there is no room for mistakes in funnels.

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You've just got to be on the ball all the time from the moment. In what way?

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Well, if you're in the mortuary, everything's just got to be spot on.

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You've got to know who you're preparing. You've got to know what's going in, which car.

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Everything's just got to be right, person to name. You cannot get this wrong.

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No. You cannot, from dressing down to the socks, it's got to be right and how

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the family want it to be, not expect it to be, want it to be.

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You're playing, you know, on people who are very highly emotionally run on before it, after it.

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So everything's got to be very much tick every box.

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You can't be late, you know. So it's important that this is all done for the

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family and also for the business.

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So the family I'd worked for have been a very, very long time in the industry.

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They're a very well-known funeral home.

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He was very particular on how things are done in our funeral home.

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So look, at the end of the day, just trying to get it, you know,

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trying to keep focused and know that someone else is having a really,

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really hard time going through something and you're giving out that energy.

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You know, you're supplying them with energy for the day.

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So sometimes it's hard, sometimes it's easy. You know, you kind of look at it

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and think no death is ever easy.

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The elderly is like, oh, you know, sad, but they've lived a good life.

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Well, that's true. Yeah. They're very good in this. And then you've got children

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or younger people or murders or whatever it might be that weren't ready to go.

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Now, they're the spirits, I think, going back to what you just said,

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they're the spirits, I think, that linger for a little while. No.

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Because they're not ready to leave. Right. So –

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If you're not ready to leave this world, your spirit's going to stop.

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There's no one here. I'm just looking around you just in case I'm...

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That's what I think. They're my thoughts only. So that's why the noises that

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I used to hear, I'd ask, who have we got in here today?

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What happened to them? You know, and it's just kind of weird to see if I'm going

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to feel anything or see anything or connect with anything. And yeah. Okay.

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It sounds very, very interesting. It is interesting. But rail,

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hail or shine, a funeral will take process, no matter what. How do you mean?

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As in like it could be pouring the day we're doing it, right?

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You've still got to go through that. We are going through with it.

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It just, everything goes through. Yeah.

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Yes, no matter what, no matter what. We've been in gumboots in territories. Yes, yes.

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Tell me. Yes. Just to change the subject a little bit, how did you go during Valentine's Day?

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What sort of a day did you have? What did you do?

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We were each other's Valentine's Day. Yeah, so she bought me a beautiful rose

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petal bear and we had a lovely dinner together.

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We just went out to a restaurant and it was lovely.

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So I'd been doing that with her since she was a little girl because her father used to work away.

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Okay. So we'd go to dinners together while everybody's kind of having their

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dinner and I'm here with this little toddler.

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She was my Valentine. She'd have a little sandwich and I'll have whatever it was I was having.

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So she looks forward to Valentine's Day as well. Absolutely.

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We think it's very special.

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Not only, I mean, it's great if you've got a partner and it is the day of love, they say.

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I mean, days of love should be 365 days a year, not just one particular day.

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But it's nice that, you know, it's just like having a birthday.

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Exactly. It can be your birthday every day. You don't need to wait for one day

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to celebrate, to celebrate any time of your life.

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But it's nice. It's nice that people go out and just, you know,

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if it's once a year you get flowers, then it's once a year you get flowers.

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So what happens now if she gets her Valentine? Well, she has got a Valentine.

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This is her first. The outside one.

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Yeah, this is her first. She has got a valentine. Oh, okay. Yeah,

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she's just recently announced a, I have a boyfriend.

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Oh, you're okay then. Which is lovely. So we are very, actually,

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it was quite funny because she did this, she's quite popular on TikTok, this TikTok thing.

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Yeah. So she did a TikTok video. I'm not sure whether she put it up or not,

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but she gave it to me and I posted and I had that many comments coming and that

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was funny. So she thought she was going to get flowers.

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And so she did this video where she's sitting down on the couch and she says,

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I'm just going to get something and her boyfriend's lying down and he's gone

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and, you know, she's gone and got a vase and she said, I'm just going to put

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the flowers in the vase that you bought me.

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I'm rearranging it but there was actually no flowers. She was just doing the

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motions of it and she was like, could you hold that one? And he holds it and

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he's looking at her like thinking, are you crazy?

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Like there is no flowers there and she'll be like, oh, these look beautiful.

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I'm just going to get some water. Are you saying like he didn't realise that she was having him on?

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He realised it, but he was half-hearted. He was like in the video you see him

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looking like she's either like loopy or like what is she doing?

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And it was like, hint, hint, where are the flowers?

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She goes, I'm just going to go put water. But then she got him by turning around

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saying when she came back to the couch, she put the flowers on the table and

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he goes, you forgot the water.

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So I think she just burst out laughing and thought he got me so anyway I think

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Valentine's is beautiful and,

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And it should be, you know, there should be chocolates and flowers and just

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that extra special love going around, even to a stranger. See, I met you, Paul.

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Where were my flowers? Why didn't you give me flowers? It's so Valentine's gone now.

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It's at speed. You have to wait for an action. You did meet.

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Oh, when did we meet? I don't know. When we met. Street talk.

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Yeah, all this is street talk. Next year, you just walk up to someone with a

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rose and say, can I interview you? I think they'd talk to me if I did that.

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Well, I would. But I'm just a different kettle of fish. I am now.

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I went off to quite a number of people and sort of said, like,

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you know, I'm a podcaster. I've got my card and I've given you my card. Sure.

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Would you like to have a five-minute chat?

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Paul, you know what the problem was? You forgot to say your name was Sammy Newman. Yeah.

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I'm his brother. Do I look alike? He's always in trouble. He's in trouble, yeah.

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You need to say, I'm Sammy Newman. They would probably stop and look at you

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for a minute and go, right.

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Then they really would run away. I'll face it. Like they won't talk to you because they're not sure.

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And because I don't have the microphone, I only have a little recorder.

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Yeah, sure, sure. And so with this little recorder, they'd look at me and think.

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Maybe you should carry lollies around or something. Do you think?

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Chocolates? No. Pack of cigarettes?

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I don't. A vape. Yeah. I'm giving away vapes today, if I can interview you. Maybe they might stop.

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Yeah. It'd be interesting to see if it could happen.

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You know, you never know. That's what I think it's possible.

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Well, I thought I had the 100 million. Oh, how's that lady who won it in Sydney? Okay.

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Yeah. Yeah. So, well, Alex, it's been great talking to you and getting a little

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bit of insight, especially the funeral parlor.

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It's very nice for you to give me a little bit of your time for this podcast

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and hopefully we'll have that on board in the next few days.

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Glad I could be of assistance. I'm glad I stopped and didn't walk past you.

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